Whether you are planning a traditional Irish wedding in the states or a destination wedding in a medieval castle on the outskirts of Dublin, you desire a sound and smart way to estimate costs. You want a technique that is simple, practical, proven, and systematic. This essay obviously can’t go into great detail about how to optimize everything, but it can hopefully get you started thinking in a more creative way to figure out how to afford your dream wedding without compromising the finances of your soon-to-be new happy home.
Let’s get to the nuts and bolts. What are the major wedding costs? What can you expect to pay for them? And how can you get these costs down?
Reception — According to expert estimates, the average reception costs approximately 35-40% of your budget. This includes drink service, rental for the venue, wedding cake, and food service. To get reception costs down, go simpler. Offer a cash bar. Spare the hors d’oeuvres and multi-course meals. Have a friend or family member host the wedding at his or her yard.
Photos and flowers — Corsages, bouquets for the bride and bridesmaids, money for the videographer and photographer and so forth cost 15% of the average wedding budget. To get costs down, have your wedding in a place with lots of natural flowers and foliage so you don’t have to pay for greenery. Get a friend or relative with a video camera and/or camera to film the affair for you as a gift (in place of a gift off the registry).
Engagement ring — A ring can comprise a huge part of your wedding budget. According to the Bridal Association of America, the average engagement ring costs over $4400! To get costs down, shop around, search for deals online, and look for a ring that boasts originality and personality as opposed to “pure bling.” Don’t feel pressure to keep up with the Joneses.
Ceremony — This accounts for around 5-10% of the average wedding budget and consists of paying the officiant and hosting the rehearsal dinner. Save money by cutting the rehearsal dinner. Or encourage a friend or relative to pay for the dinner as a wedding gift.
Other costs — Flowers, favors and gifts, attire, and, of course, the honeymoon can also add up. All told, the Bridal Association of America estimates that the average wedding costs nearly $40,000! Your wedding budget may be a lot cheaper (or more expensive) depending on how you budget, where you have your wedding, and how strategic you are about shopping for discounts.
Take time to plan out your wedding budget (actually do one!). See where your money’s going to make better decisions about how to get the most “bang for your buck” — that is, to get the wedding of your dreams without throwing away your nest egg.
Steven Forsyth – Celtic Rings Ltd




